About

Maryellen, Growing Together: Neurodiversity at Home

My ADHD Diagnosis (the backstory)

Hi, I’m Maryellen

Real life. Real parenting. Neurodiversity at home.

I’m a homeschool mom sharing what actually helps our neurodiverse family— simple, practical routines, visual tools, and honest stories. Everything here is tested at home so you can skip the guesswork.

I send one doable, real-life email every other week with new ideas, tools, and videos. On YouTube, I post one longer video each week, plus 2–3 Shorts to show quick wins and real-life routines.

A little about me

I’m Maryellen — homeschool mom, problem-solver, and believer in structure that flexes with real life. Our family lives the neurodiversity life daily (ADHD + autism across the crew), and I share what actually works for us—no shame, no perfection pressure.

  • Family: 4 kids; most of us are ADHD/autistic
  • What I make: simple routines, visual tools, real-life videos
  • Goal: help busy neurodivergent families feel calmer, find resources, and know that they are not alone.

What you’ll find here

What I believe

  • Every brain is different—and that’s a strength.
  • We can do hard things—and so can our kids.
  • Simple beats perfect.
  • Home-tested > internet-promised.
  • Kindness, consent, and connection come first.
  • Progress over perfection, always.

Start here

Tell me your story—I want to hear from you

What’s going on at your house? How can I help? What do you want to know more about? Send me a note—I read every message and use your questions to shape future videos and printables.

Some posts contain affiliate links. I only recommend tools we actually use at home. Read my Disclosures & Disclaimers and Privacy Policy anytime.

A few things I love (click to expand)
  • Comfort foods: big salads, chicken wings, boiled crawfish, spaghetti, salmon, and (beef roast) rice & gravy.
  • Travel vibes: We lived in Germany for 4.5 years and loved it! We also really miss the candy and how easy it was to travel to other countries.
  • Hobbies: I have many and they rotate during different seasons of my life. Some current ones are baking sourdough and making kefir water and milk. I also love creating things – watercolor, Legos, loom knitting, and more. I’ve also been obsessed with books and reading since I was a little girl.